Max is a real jerk. A long time ago, the successful lawyer had turned over all the routine duties of family life to his wife Nathalie.His comfort and leisure time were a far greater priority. Sell the roadster and buy an efficient family car? No way!But then, Max’s fast-paced life suddenly screeches to a halt when Nathalie is hospitalized for several weeks with a complicated fracture.Alone with their two children and the dog he hates, Max quickly reaches the boiling point.As if having to play father was not bad enough, he is shocked to the core when he discovers passionate love letters written to his wife and signed “From G. in love”. Feeling that his life is slipping out of control, Max’s first impulse is to find out who his rival is. Then it dawns on him – could the way he has treated his wife be the reason why she has sought out another lover?Now Max attempts to see his situation from a different point of view. Last week he was ready to plan the yearly guys’ vacation he takes with his best buddy, but now things have changed.Max recognizes just how much he needs Nathalie’s humor, her organizing talent and her optimism, but also just how important to him she and his family really are. Max tries to discover the mysterious lover’s identity, but because of his new insight, he takes an additional step.Unfortunately, when he learns that the mystery man is Gregor, Max realizes that not only does the man have all those qualities - he is very attractive as well. His struggle to become a better husband and father suddenly becomes far more difficult.Hoping to knock Gregor out of the picture and get back in Nathalie’s good graces, Max makes an appointment with a successful life coach. But turning his life around is far more difficult than he had imagined.To make matters worse, Gregor turns out to be a loving, family-oriented man just what Nathalie needs. Max is desperate – he knows there is a real chance that he might lose Nathalie and the children.Willing to put everything on the line to keep his family intact, Max makes the biggest sacrifice of his life. Then something happens that is the very last thing he could have ever counted on…
很多人都注意到了电影对于女性身体的呈现及隐喻，但似乎没有多少人关注与身体痛苦并列的情欲，如酒吧偶遇之后的放松欢愉，在当下舆论里，痛苦时及痛苦后的情欲是一种不值得被同情的甚至是要被审判的愚蠢，导演没有偷懒的符号化处理身体和自由的关系就很难得
六十多年过去了，整个父权社会环境在各个方面对于女性也并没有更好更合理许多，有形的无形的来自性别的压力仍无处不在。
想到了另一部电影《四月三周两天》，影像更凌厉。父权、社会、律法、世俗对女性的重重重压，尽管如此，安妮仍然勇敢以对。如果我生下他，我会恨他一辈子。因为可能影响一整个人生。
简单，直白，有力。
让你怀孕的是一个政治家，他的朋友一个是医生，一个是律师，他们在海滩说说笑笑，当你快要溺死的时候他们劝你莫做蠢事。
这部要和《从不，很少，有时，总是》对照着看，同一个题材，不同时代不同国家。
恐怖片，但真正恐怖的是画面之外、电影开始前、摄影机看不到的地方。从不避讳疼痛，很少谈论身体的变化，有时认为理所应当，其实总是忘记，这一直正在发生。
什么病？一种只会攻击女人的病，让TA们变成家庭主妇的病。
前年的《从不，很少，有时，总是》在柏林拿了评审团大奖，去年的《正发生》更直接拿下了金狮奖，欧洲电影节的关注点值得“我们”去思考。女性导演自身更加感同身受的视角真的把这些“正发生”的事件拍得异常疼痛和恐怖，部分场景我终究是没有完整看完，理解表达，但并不是我喜欢的类型，非常抱歉。
这就是为什么禁止堕胎是最愚蠢的政策：它只会把堕胎逼到地下进行，但永远会有女性赌上性命去做。“连坐法”（惩罚堕胎者的同时也惩罚帮助者、实施者）更会将女性逼上绝路，让她不得不站在爱人、朋友，以及医生、老师等身份的对面。电影的拍摄方式几乎是逼迫着观众与主角共视线、共体验、共情，非常“暴力”和强烈，威尼斯电影节放映时听说有评委觉得“感到恶心”。我觉得这是它很成功的地方——科技还不能让男人怀孕，但是电影有让所有人感受女性的痛苦的潜力，这是一种电影院式众生平等。当然，我很好奇男性观众到底是什么反应……
3.5 很有身临其境感的情绪电影，女性拥有堕胎意志自由，这本来就是个天经地义无需讨论的事
已经在纪录片里看过独自分娩的狠人了，所以这部的冲击力也就那样，题材和手法都是前人用过的，况且深度远不及《四三二》，也就女主的苦力表演值得肯定了吧。
当月球上只剩下沈腾一个人时，他终于拥有了属于自己的宠物。只是别的电影的宠物都是萌宠，小小一只可可爱爱，而沈腾的宠物却不是萌是猛，贪吃、暴躁、超大一只、武力值爆表，别人家宠物是温柔互宠加治愈，沈腾的猛宠却是一日揍他三百拳。更没想到的是，他的人生真的被现场直播了，还是跨球，社死都不带死这么惨的。但是先“相杀”后“相爱”也是一种陪伴和治愈，整体来说电影笑料很足，也有温情，配乐和视觉效果也不错。
看到最后我觉得我的肚子也很痛。（一直以来听到同事的差评 单薄做作云云 对男的我就想问 你们其实连痛经都没有经历过吧 凭什么呢 但觉得这部片很差的女同事我就真的搞不懂了）
7.5 模糊的临场感，完全聚焦于身体政治而几乎忽视了环境的罪恶，对于内容的衍生比起相同题材的其他作品相差甚远，只有疼痛感是真切的。
《女人韵事》《维拉·德雷克》看样子金狮挺好拿的嘛
对，我就泪点低——所以在一部喜剧片里还是有被科幻的浪漫与人类的力量感动到。
整体来说，2021的金熊金棕榈金狮都有点水。另外两部先锋一些，还能剑走偏锋的来吹，这部就比较常规了，但是也平淡如水，还不如432还有去年生孩子那个电影
法国版《悲伤逆流成河》，没有刻意的渲染但整部影片充斥着压抑和恐惧，足够让观众带入少女恐惧的视角，平稳有力地牵动全场观众的情绪，这片子要是早几年上映郭敬明应该会放弃导演梦。。
@Sundance, 太真实太palpable，unratable。顺便说一句某著名影评人（男）对此片洋洋洒洒百字评论居然能从镜头调度讲到萨特加缪，就是一字不提womanhood最后还说“60年代这个背景固然可以拿掉”，牛！
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